if you promised someone that you'd write back, you really should write back. if you decide not to write back, tell them you don't wanna write back anymore. but don't make them wait a whole year waiting for your damned letter. if it was a promise, know that they'd wait for it.

if you told a friend you valued your friendship more than anything, you should try your hardest to live with it. don't go using her to get back at some other girl. it's one thing to ask for help, but if you're doing it to make her undatable, then it's not cool.

whatever you say, you really should mean it when you say it. if you're unsure of it, don't say it at all even though it's partially true. because one day, when things go bad, you'll just take everything back, and you'll leave that person wondering, what the hell just happened? so was everything a lie? and she'll never forget how hurt she got, and a second chance might be very hard to come by even if it's killing her not to give you that second chance.